Orgasm is, for many people, the goal of the sexual experience. It is what the journey is leading toward, the most exciting moment of a wonderful trip, and the pinnacle of the sexual encounter. It's also the shortest phase of the sexual cycle, with rhythmic muscle contraction as its defining biological characteristic. At the moment of orgasm, muscles all over the body contract, although people tend to pay most attention to the spasms in very specific areas…
In some ways the male and female bodies almost seem to be designed to work for the pleasure and satisfaction of their sexual partner. For example, semen is a potent neutral buffer, which is necessary to prevent sperm from dying in the acidic vaginal environment, but it is also an effective lubricant. The vaginal opening tightens involuntarily as intercourse progresses, which enhances pleasure for both partners, as well as encouraging male ejaculation. Men's and women's bodies are therefore not only optimized for individuality, but for interaction.
It's My Pleasure
Orgasm may, in many ways, be a function of the brain and nervous system. The sexual organs contain a dense concentration of nerves, which contribute extensively to the sensations of passionate pleasure. In particular, the glans of the penis and its female counterpart, the head of the clitoris, are some of the most densely innervated parts of the human body. The interior of the vagina is sensitive as well, although much less so than the clitoris, or even the back of the hand. The most concentrated areas of vaginal sensation are at the top of the entrance, near the clitoris. The inner vagina is much less sensitive to touch, and many women don't enjoy contact with their cervix during intercourse. However, some research suggests that more than 25 percent of women may find cervical stimulation pleasurable.
In men, orgasm and ejaculation are closely, but not exclusively, linked. Male ejaculation actually occurs in two phases. The first phase takes place when the prostate, seminal vesicles, and vas deferens contract and force the ejaculate into a bulb at the base of the urethra. The second phase occurs when the urethral bulb and penis contract rhythmically to expel the ejaculate out the tip of the penis. Nonetheless, it is possible for some men to experience orgasm without ejaculation, and these men may be more likely to have multiple orgasms.
In women, the most profound change during the plateau phase is the formation of the orgasmic platform. In contrast to the earlier ballooning of the inner vagina, the orgasmic platform is actually formed by a swelling and tightening of the outer vagina. It is the orgasmic platform that has the most noticeable rhythmic contractions. A woman may experience three contractions, or a dozen, and the muscles of the anus and uterus may contract as well. Women are far more likely to be multi-orgasmic than men, and some women are actually capable of ejaculation during orgasm—but the precise nature of what and how they're ejaculating remains a subject of scientific debate.
Fluid Dynamics
An important function of vaginal lubrication is to enhance the experience of sex. The vagina contains no secretory organs. How, then, does the vagina become lubricated? As the blood vessels in the vaginal walls dilate and increase blood flow, fluid seeps through into the vagina in a process known as transudation. Basically, increased blood flow causes the vessels to sweat.
Does female ejaculation exist? Many people think so. The pornography industry certainly does, and markets numerous videos to instruct women in the technique. The scientific community, on the other hand, is less certain. Major gynecologic journals scoff at the evidence, while sexual health textbooks accept it as fact.
Male ejaculate is a complex fluid designed to nourish and safeguard sperm during their journey through the female reproductive tract. The first component of the secretion is mucin, a potent basic buffer made by the Cowper's glands. This buffer is necessary because from the moment sperm enter the vagina, they are in danger. The normally acidic vaginal pH is fatal to them, and they can survive only because the buffering capacity of semen temporarily raises the pH to neutral so that sperm can make their way into the relatively less hostile environment of the uterus. Prostaglandin, one of the seminal components made in the prostate, actually causes uterine contraction, which may aid in the uptake of sperm. The prostate also contributes other supportive compounds, including immunoglobulins. Finally, the seminal vesicles make their contribution to the mix by producing the majority of the volume of the ejaculate. One of the most important components of their secretion is fructose-a sweet-tasting natural sugar. The reproductive voyage requires a great deal of energy, and this special sugar not only nourishes the sperm on their exhausting journey, but may also contribute to semen's unique taste.
The path that sperm travel during ejaculation is a long and winding road. Sperm take approximately three months to mature. However, despite traveling through the epididymis, they are still not ready to do their job. Before ejaculation, they move through the vas deferens, where they are mixed with the other components of semen in preparation for being expelled through the urethra. Actual ejaculation requires the coordination of a series of valves, which first allow the semen into the ejaculatory ducts—the emission phase—and then expel it. Even after ejaculation, the sperm still aren't prepared for fertilization. The process of sperm activation actually continues up until the moment they reach the egg.