The Baby's Advent Into the World Marks Epic Changes for Newborn and Mother Alike
The baby's advent into the world marks epic changes for newborn and mother alike. Major fetal organs like the lungs, stomach, intestines, and kidneys, which have remained untested because there was no oxygen to breathe, food to digest, or wastes to eliminate, all must start functioning at once in some cases within seconds of delivery. Others already in use like the heart and brain must adapt without hesitation to a world for which they have been meticulously designed and prepared but that differs utterly from the one in which they've functioned. Blood coming into the heart must suddenly be shunted to the lungs, meaning the opening between the 2 upper chambers (necessary for circulation when oxygen enters the bloodstream through the placenta) needs to be sealed at once. The nervous system immediately starts making use of information from eyes practically blinded by a blizzard of incoming data (not to mention the eyedrops doctors give them to prevent infections). Returning to the idea that we are mechanical buildings, it is as if we were constructed under the ocean, then thrust up onto dry land in perfect working order - and immediately pressed into service.
A baby, unlike a fetus, must sustain itself against shocks, changes in temperature, disease; still later, against the rough and tumble of school, work, dating, loss, and having children of one's own. Starting at birth, it must negotiate for itself. Thus the days of being a parasitic dependent on an acquiescent host are (one hopes) over.
For the mother, there is a corresponding loss of primacy in the fetus' life. She has been everything – food, climate, shelter, security — literally the air her child has breathed. She was occupied by an invader, one who caused her willingly to put up with enormous discomfort and changes in herself, who is now outside her, crying out.
The “sweet sorrow” of parting may be lost on her as the shock of separation sets in. But babies, like fetuses, have a remarkable way of insinuating themselves into their parents' lives. Indeed, their helpless perfection and helplessness gives them the power, as every proud parent learns, to attract not only admirers and sympathizers, but adoring crowds.
Source: TheVisualMD